Recently, my 1:1 coach asked me, “Why don’t you talk more about your results?”
I’m embarrassed to say this but my immediate response was…“What results?”
The more embarrassing part is... the facts didn’t support my answer.
Over the past several years, I’ve built a lean 6-figure business solo, helped 7 women build six-figure businesses of their own, many other hit their first $5K month and recently signed an $8,000 pay-in-full client who had never followed me on Instagram and had only read a single piece of my writing before deciding she wanted to work with me.
So why did my brain genuinely believe none of that counted?
The answer surprised me.
Somewhere along the way, I’d quietly started measuring success against an internet that celebrates million-dollar launches, eight-figure founders, and endless Stripe screenshots. Without realizing it, my definition of “impressive” had shifted so dramatically that I stopped recognizing my own wins and, even worse, I stopped talking about them.
In today’s podcast episode, we’re exploring what happens when success quietly starts moving further and further away from you not because you’re achieving less, but because your definition of “enough” has been slowly rewritten.
We’ll talk about why 6-figures somehow became a milestone that women almost apologize for, and what it’s costing us when we stop recognizing the very progress we once dreamed of.
We’ll unpack the subtle ways comparison reshapes our perception, why that doesn’t just affect our confidence but the way we market, sell, and lead, and why I’ve become increasingly convinced that protecting your perspective might be one of the most profitable things you can do.
I’ve watched 6-figures change lives.
I’ve watched it pay mortgages, create breathing room, fund childhood dreams, build businesses that finally support the women running them, and give families choices they didn’t have before.
That’s not a small thing.
And if you’ve found yourself looking at your own business lately thinking, I should be further along by now, or dismissing accomplishments that would have once felt extraordinary, I hope this episode helps you see them and yourselfa little more clearly.
Sometimes the biggest shift isn’t making more.
It’s seeing what’s already true for you.
